When someone in the family has a hearing loss, the whole family has a hearing problem.
Addressing hearing loss with a loved one may not be easy, but it is essential for their well-being and the quality of your relationship. Hearing loss tends to manifest gradually and often goes unnoticed until a caring person brings it to our attention. As hearing diminishes, individuals may develop subtle coping mechanisms that become second nature, such as nodding in agreement or laughing when others do, all in an effort to keep up with conversations.
Remarkably, research indicates that it often takes individuals over seven years, from the moment they realize they have hearing difficulties to seeking professional hearing loss treatment. That’s why having a conversation about hearing loss as early as possible is of paramount importance. By the time most people acknowledge a change in someone’s hearing, a substantial amount of time has already passed since the onset of their hearing challenges.
Why does hearing loss often go unnoticed for many people?
This is primarily because hearing loss tends to be a gradual process. For most individuals, the decline in hearing begins with the high-pitched sounds, where we produce sounds like “s,” “th,” and “f.” These high-frequency sounds deteriorate slowly over time, while the lower-pitched sounds, where we produce many vowel sounds, often remain relatively clear.
As a result, people with a surprising degree of hearing loss can still perceive that someone is talking to them, but they may struggle to decipher the exact words being said. This paradox can be deceiving, as when we continue to hear softer, low-pitched sounds in our environment, we may wrongly assume that our hearing is perfectly fine, thereby denying the existence of any problem.
Common Signs of Hearing Loss
- Mumbled Speech and Frequent Requests to Repeat: Individuals with hearing loss often struggle to decipher speech. They might know something has been said but miss certain speech sounds, leading to consonant confusion, like “sit” instead of “fit.” Responding incorrectly or belatedly is common as they piece information together using context and past experiences, placing extra cognitive strain.
- Difficulty in Noisy Gatherings: Hearing loss often manifests as increased difficulty in group or noisy settings. Some may dominate conversations to control the dialogue, while others may withdraw to avoid misunderstandings.
- TV Volume Control: Needing to crank up the TV volume can be a sign of hearing loss. It’s not constant but often associated with catching high pitches in soft scenes, leading to inconsistent volume adjustments and attributing them to the program instead of hearing issues.
- Smiling and Nodding During Conversations: Coping mechanisms include excessive nodding and smiling to appear engaged, as well as relying on lip reading, which can be problematic during phone calls or distant conversations.
- Withdrawal from Conversations: Hearing loss may cause individuals to withdraw from conversations, impacting connections with loved ones. It’s associated with isolation, anger, depression, lost intimacy, and cognitive decline risk.
- Tinnitus (Ringing/Buzzing in Quiet Rooms): Persistent ringing or buzzing in quiet environments, known as tinnitus, is a common symptom of developing hearing loss. It occurs as the brain compensates for hearing loss in specific regions.
Noticing these signs is a signal that it’s time to have a conversation with a loved one about their hearing. Recognizing these indicators can pave the way for valuable discussions and encourage seeking professional help for hearing assessments and support.